Hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn.

Ah. yet another practice of my literary skills - honest, and lovely. Let it be known.Anyhow, i feel better now after ive let it all out to her - she better not cause me any problems because i will sincerely raise hell. Hell hath no fury like a womans scorn.

IN REGARDS TO THE NOTE.
1)Wasn’t the router $50 with the rebate? Do you have the receipt?

2) First of all, when I first discussed the bloody sheets with you in my room, I felt as though I didn’t make it clear to you the 1st time that I DID wanted my comforter washed, in addition to everything else so I clarified what I meant in the note, by stating EVERYTHING.

3) Secondly, since you allowed Frankman into my room, I decided to let you two take care of the situation and figure out the replacement situation between yourselves, its not MY problem to fix, since I had no part in the damaging it, and I didn’t want to deal or think about it over break, just like I said in my note.

4) Third, I called and LEFT A MESSAGE on Frankman’s voicemail ONE DAY BEFORE writing you the note, and since he didn't respond to me then, and has YET to respond to me, I had no idea whether he received my message or even chose to acknowledge it, and if you look at # 3, its not MY job to follow up on him.

HERE IS WHY I WAS ANGRY.
1)Neither you, BJ or Frankman have FORMALLY APOLOGIZED to me yet. Saying "I
feel bad" is not the same as "I'm sorry."

2) YOU OUTRIGHT LIED TO ME SEVERAL TIMES. Here are your lies:

Telling me that you saw blood in the bathroom before Saturday night was a LIE. You specifically mentioned to have seen bloody nose tissues on the bathroom trash, and blood in the bathroom around Thursday the 9th of December, however you must have forgotten that I was in the bathroom ON SATURDAY MORNING of the 10th washing my hair (I left it curly and asked you if you wanted anything from the grocery store), I also sat on my bed and I didn’t see ANY BLOOD ANYWHERE. The blood would've been obvious since it was all over the countertop and I made my bed that morning as well. Of course, your statement made no sense. (Neither Greg nor I have EVER had a bloody nose in our lives.) So OBVIOUSLY it was
BJ, Frankman, or you - since your last email said that Frankman is replacing my sheets – yes, it was him, as I knew all along.

Telling me that you saw blood on my sheets BEFORE you got in it on Saturday night was ALSO a LIE. Since it was Frankman's bloody nose, the blood would've been fresh, and you'd have known it was him, and not Greg or I - as the blood would've dried.

Telling me that you saw the blood on my sheets, and slept in the crack of my bed to avoid it, when I asked you "why you would sleep on a bloody pillow?" was ALSO a LIE.Telling me that Frankman must have slept on my previously bloody pillow was ALSO a LIE.

You didn’t SPECIFICALLY tell me that there was blood on my sheets when I talked to you at Delta Sig, you only mentioned the blood in the bathroom, and you asked me "where it came from" -- OBVIOUSLY you knew where the blood came from, so this too was indirectly a lie.You must think I’m some kind of idiot to fall for that kind of BS; this is what makes me the most angry. I HAVE AN EXTREMELY SHARP MEMORY.

3)BOTH OF YOU INVADED MY PRIVACY: You didn’t receive my permission before invading my privacy by letting someone into my room, I realize I may not have made my privacy issues clear, but I would think that you'd at least have the courtesy to ask and the respect to not let a drunken person in my room. Not only that, but you also entered my room and lay in my bed when you were SICK, without any regard to my well being, especially during finals week.

4) BOTH OF YOU TRIED TO COVER IT UP FOR 4 DAYS: You and Frankman let the blood FESTER in my bed and in the bathroom for FOUR days, without telling me, or doing anything about it.The sheets should've been replaced as SOON as possible after they were damaged, instead of ignoring the problem for 4 days and hoping that it would go away. And not 4 weeks afterwards, either. I shouldn't have to be without sheets until a time that’s "more convenient for him", when he damaged it in the first place. In any case, at least he is replacing it, and I will wait for him to get back from break. ANYONE, after seeing the amount of blood on outside and inside the pillowcase, would KNOW that it MUST have seeped through and infected the pillow itself. That pillow is Greg’s - so Frankman can talk to him about it.

Despite his intentions, Frankman has DAMAGED MY PROPERTY, so it’s only right for him to replace it, or give me the money to replace it myself - and YES, I am DEMANDING that he does, because it’s MY RIGHT, not because I am trying "power up" on you, as you so eloquently put it.

What upsets me the most is that until now, I've been COMPLETELY nice to you, I've let you borrow all of my books, all of my notes, some my clothes and the majority of my belongings, laughed with you, confided in you, and went out of my way to make your transition to dental school comfortable - and despite my trust in you, you had no problem lying over and over again directly to my face.

Hopefully by now you realize that I have EVERY RIGHT to EXPRESS that anger to you, because you've LIED and DISRESPECTED ME by REPEATEDLY trying to cover it up-- NOT because you made a mistake and thought that I would be ok with having them sleep in my bed, or that Frankman unknowingly had a bloody nose. Anyone would agree that you have NO right to be irritated or angry with me, and you are especially in NO POSITION to have written your last email in that tone to me.

How DARE you complain to me about your "irritation" with how "contentious" and "rude" my note was, after the position you’ve put me in? Instead, you should be THRILLED because I made conscious effort put aside my rage, and treated you NICELY with a STRAIGHTFORWARD NOTE, instead of a note reflecting my TRUE anger, or outright VERBAL ABUSE. Despite this entire incident, ALL I REALLY WANTED was for my sheets to be replaced by the time I got back-- is that really so much to ask?

Lastly, this isn’t Undergrad, and I'm not one for drama - we've both gotten our
aggressions out in the open and I don't plan on discussing my feelings on this topic with you again, so let’s put this entire matter behind us and deal with each other respectfully from now on. I have a few other things to ask of you for the upcoming semester, and we'll deal with it face to face when I'm back. In regards to the sheets, I'll call or email to Frankman and find out when he will be back from break. Please don’t bother responding to this email, because I won't be checking it until I'm in Ann Arbor.

Sincerely,
Nadia